* image These past few months have been busy for our family, especially since our oldest joined a local swim team. Between juggling our work schedules and balancing school with practices... we're all pretty wiped out. Although it's a lot of work, I'm looking forward to Thanksgiving. Preparing the holiday meal for our family fills my heart with joy, and I can't wait to get started. To make things easier for me, I don't deviate much from our first Thanksgiving as a family. The dishes I make are familiar ones, and the recipes for them live at my fingertips. Keeping the same menu year after year means I don't have to spend time researching recipes or planning a new one. Here are my tried-and-true Thanksgiving recipes, as well as my prep timeline for the big day!
Spicy Penne all'Arrabbiata {and the Willingness to Suffer}
Make this super satisfying pasta dish the next time you're craving comfort food with a spicy kick!
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If you follow me on social media, then you know I've been sick for the past several days (see here and here). Of course, our sweet girl was sick first, and she passed her germs along to my husband. The two of them were sick for about a week before the germs finally found their way into my system. Needless to say, I was not happy about getting sick... especially since I had been diligent about hand-washing and disinfecting everything.
I was at work when I felt the first signs of my cold. Before I could talk myself out of it, I packed up some of the projects I'd been working on and went straight home. I thought taking a nap and getting some rest would nip things in the bud, but I was wrong. I woke up the next morning with sinus congestion and a cough.
Under regular circumstances, I'd take over-the-counter sinus medication and push on. But I'm well into my second trimester now (almost in my third!), and I'm hesitant to take any medication unless I need it... even when equipped with a list of safe medications to take while pregnant from my OB.
Then I realized something. I was risking dragging out my cold or having it develop into something worse by not taking any meds. Being sick for a mere 24 hours was already affecting my ability to get through the day... I couldn't focus on my work projects and I couldn't be the kind of mom I wanted to be.
My energy level was low and my motivation was even lower. I didn't want to go anywhere near my to-do list. What was worse, though, was not feeling up to interacting with Caroline as I usually do. I felt like I was failing her somehow by not being wholly present. She could sense that something was off because she kept patting my face and offering hugs... But she also wanted me to build with blocks, read books, and taste the pretend soup she made for me in her play kitchen.
This was not acceptable.
I engaged in an internal debate with myself for about an hour. I read and reread the information about safe medications from my doctor. After that, I finally gave myself permission to stop suffering. I threw on some street clothes and ran out for sinus medication that was on the list. When I got home, I immediately took two capsules and waited...
Within 20 minutes, the sinus pressure was gone and I could breathe again. Hooray! And, despite a lingering cough, I was able to get back to life per usual.
Over the next few hours, I tried to understand why I couldn't make the decision to take medication faster. Why did I agonize so much about it? Why was I so willing to suffer from the cold symptoms?
I'm not sure how long it'll take me to figure out those answers. One day, I may even learn how to get there without going through the motions. But for now... The next time I mention being sick on social media, promise me something.
Don't hesitate.
Save me from myself and tell me to take something right away. And so I'm covered, thank you in advance. :)
